Masculine and Feminine Christian Sexuality: Neurodiversity [1] – Introduction

Neurodiversity is a very new thing for us to be talking about on this site: as far as we are aware, there has been no previous reference to it. We have, however, in the last 12 months developed an awareness of strong links between neurodiversity and gender dysphoria. From this existing and accepted knowledge about neurodiverse sexuality have come other possible insights and avenues to explore. One possibility we feel has a likely strong association is feedism, which for those not aware of its meaning, is a sexual deviancy that involves feeding someone or being fed by someone. The most controversial aspect of feedism is when feedees (those receiving the feeding, or eating/drinking) consume huge amounts of food and become extremely obese. Whilst feedism is not inherently a component of extreme obesity, the outcome of feedees in an alleged minority of cases become extremely obese (women, often labelled “SSBBW” or similar, have been known to exceed 300 kg in weight whilst associated with feedism communities), and often participating in extended eating binges involving tens of thousands of calories of food consumed over a number of successive days (a real world example can be found in this article on the Metro website in the UK from February 8, 2019: “Size 30 woman has thousands of fans who pay to watch her eat 10,000 calories a day“. Her quoted weight at the time was around 210 kg; more detail can also be found in this article from the Daily Mail.). They are generally encouraged and supported via online forums created especially for the purpose, and this whole area of sexuality falls under the umbrella term of fat fetishism. Neurodiversity as a whole, we feel, is likely to be strongly associated with a whole range of different kinds of sexuality struggles. It seems to be the case that those who are neurodiverse are more likely to lack a strong sense of sexual identity (hence gender dysphoria) and out of this will naturally flow other sexual struggles of various kinds. If we get to a point of understanding that there might very well be a link between neurodiversity and feedism, then it is also possible that lesser expressions of weight struggles, even those that would fit into our Belly Sex series, could actually be relevant to this site and attract some further investigation. There is currently a Belly Sex series article in planning to take in the feedism issue in more depth, so watch out for this being posted in the coming weeks. Part 2 of this series will also appear soon, and it will look at neurodiiversity issues that may exist in Christian sexuality for females. Part 3 will be the male specific version of this, and at this stage there is no timeline set down for its publication, as it depends on when insights are received and so far there are none.