Category: Singleness Sexuality

  • Masturbation For Christian Adolescents 101: 4- Guys (C)

    We’re continually studying the application of various principles about sexuality in a Christian context as we look at different aspects of everyday life and how sexuality issues are worked out for people we work with in ministry. We have felt to write another part of this series specifically for adolescent Christian guys because practically all…

  • PSS Aspects Of Sexuality and Sexual Relationships [1]: Female Intimate Spiritual Engagement

    This is a new series we are starting to look at sexuality and sexual relationships (specifically, marriage) and in particular the relevance of PSS concepts. From our earlier postings, PSS refers to physical, sexual and spiritual aspects to masturbation. We postulate that these aspects play a part in significant human relationships, but in the context…

  • Masturbation For Christian Adolescents 101: 3- Guys (B)

    In our previous postings to date, we have focused on what constitutes a healthy use of masturbation by guys and in particular, their thoughts during a session. We’ve previously articulated a view that when masturbating, a guy should focus on the physical aspects of what is going on in his body through the act of…

  • Masturbation For Christian Adolescents 101: 2 – Gals (A)

    Last post was aimed at adolescent guys, so now it is obvious that we can continue by writing a post about the experiences that gals will have. Physiology for adolescent females is obviously different from males, but it proceeds in a similar way. During the later stages of pre-adolescent childhood, the body is developing the…

  • Masturbation For Christian Adolescents 101: 1- Guys (A)

    Whether we have written anything like this before, we will write this stuff down as we wish to continue reiterating some of our most important themes in different ways on this site. As usual, we also recommend reading our Masturbation For Christians 101 series. The most important principles which we want to articulate for masturbation…

  • Feminine Christian Sexuality: Normalisation of Masturbation from Adolescence

    Well of course now we have to do a post about how women need to be able to masturbate from adolescence as well and how it should be looked on the same as guys, that is, that masturbation for women starting from adolescence can be very healthy and should just be normalised so that no…

  • Masculine Christian Sexuality: Supporting Adolescent Masturbation

    So our previous two posts in this series have discussed normalising adolescent masturbation from the perspective simply that we believe that there is too much harmful focus on the supposed evils of masturbation, which is not actually even mentioned in the Bible apart from possibly one place in the book of Leviticus, where its spiritual…

  • Masculine Christian Sexuality: Healthy Adolescent Masturbation

    This ministry is a constant learning experience for us, the experience comes from insights working with ordinary everyday people and inspiration from the Holy Spirit into how to address their issues. Hence there is a gradual development of our knowledge about how to address sexuality questions for people, specifically in this case adolescent males. Last…

  • Masculine Christian Sexuality: Normalisation of Masturbation from Adolescence

    Some parts of this post are relevant to Christian women to a certain extent but the core intention is to address primarily a male perspective. We have talked about the benefit of masturbation as important to males’ sexual development from adolescence, defining it in terms of the 3-Ds. The subject of this post is to…

  • Feminine Christian Sexuality: Spiritual Intimacy vs Sexual Intimacy

    There are some key differences between male and female sexuality that are in some cases obvious as the physical differences between bodies, and in other cases not so obvious at all as they are spiritual in nature, or perhaps emotional. This post is going to dig into the very key aspect of spiritual intimacy for…