Category: Marital Sexuality

  • Masturbation For Christian Adolescents 101: 5 – Gals (B)

    Following on from our last couple of posts about masturbation for Christian guys, it’s time for a second post about gals. What’s important for now is to place a PSS context in place for Christian adolescent gals’ sexual development given what is enunciated as a clear understanding of healthy development for the guys, masturbation and…

  • Masturbation For Christian Adolescents 101: 4- Guys (C)

    We’re continually studying the application of various principles about sexuality in a Christian context as we look at different aspects of everyday life and how sexuality issues are worked out for people we work with in ministry. We have felt to write another part of this series specifically for adolescent Christian guys because practically all…

  • PSS Aspects Of Sexuality and Sexual Relationships [1]: Female Intimate Spiritual Engagement

    This is a new series we are starting to look at sexuality and sexual relationships (specifically, marriage) and in particular the relevance of PSS concepts. From our earlier postings, PSS refers to physical, sexual and spiritual aspects to masturbation. We postulate that these aspects play a part in significant human relationships, but in the context…

  • Masturbation For Christian Adolescents 101: 3- Guys (B)

    In our previous postings to date, we have focused on what constitutes a healthy use of masturbation by guys and in particular, their thoughts during a session. We’ve previously articulated a view that when masturbating, a guy should focus on the physical aspects of what is going on in his body through the act of…

  • Feminine Christian Sexuality: Spiritual Intimacy vs Sexual Intimacy

    There are some key differences between male and female sexuality that are in some cases obvious as the physical differences between bodies, and in other cases not so obvious at all as they are spiritual in nature, or perhaps emotional. This post is going to dig into the very key aspect of spiritual intimacy for…

  • Spirituality / Purpose of Masturbation – 10 || Pleasure

    We feel this is a very important issue that we want to address in this series. It is one of the most controversial aspects of sex and masturbation in general because of the wider debate over the purposes of sex in the overall context of human sexuality. There have been widely differing schools of theological…

  • Spirituality / Purpose of Masturbation – 9 || A Specific Devotion

    Right now we just want to address the struggle some Christians have with masturbation, in a devotional way in particular. We have talked about using masturbation for 3-D purposes. One of those purposes is devotion. In other words, we believe that any Christian believer can and should use masturbation in a time of devotion to…

  • Spirituality / Purpose of Masturbation – 8 || Sex Drive Levels

    This series is not over yet! Here’s Part 8, and there may well be a Part 9 or 10, we are unsure, just that we feel some more is still to be written on this subject. In this article, among other things, we look at levels of sex drive. The purpose of defining and labeling…

  • Spirituality / Purpose of Masturbation – 7

    This post is in part a continuation of the last post (talking about Christian women with a high sex drive) and in part talking about Christian men’s sex drive. It is really our intention here to tidy up a few loose ends in this series and probably bring it to a close as we feel…

  • Spirituality / Purpose of Masturbation – 6

    In our last post we talked about female sex drive and how a godly woman with a high sex drive can benefit from using masturbation to fill in the gaps in marital relations and actually enhance these sexual relations with her husband in so doing. One of the important points is that a woman’s sense…